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Affair Empowerment Song – I feel like a woman!

It’s time to add some songs to the empowerment category! This song always gets me pumped up and feeling good Read More

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He had an affair – again

Today ladies I want to bring up the topic of finding out your husband cheated – a second time. When I was married, I was totally devastated when my husband cheated. After I got my sanity back, I made the decision to stay and work it out. He was not being as transparent as I Read More

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Cheating Husband – He knows your FEAR

I would like to share with you a secret that I have discovered over the years about cheating husbands. Once they get caught cheating, they know that they have done wrong, they know that what they did is not fair —- but most importantly, they know your fears. They know that you are fearful of Read More

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After infidelity – how I got out of the limbo stage

Affair recovery can be challenging in many ways. There are so many considerations and decisions to make, and it is overwhelming. I remember thinking to myself, I have to work on the marriage, I have to work on myself, I don’t want the kids impacted, if I leave where will I go, does my husband Read More

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Cheating and Porn

Porn. Not sure when Porn became mainstream. Before the internet, it was a magazine. A piece of paper that contained images that would stimulate men (and some women). As a society, we went from pictures in a magazine to full interactive porn videos, online chat’s, and phone sex. Porn has gotten so sexually stimulating, and Read More

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Infidelity in the marriage – YOU always have a choice

Trapped. Alone. Stuck. No where to go. Can not leave. Does this sound like you? After infidelity has entered the marriage, it is common to feel trapped. I remember saying to myself, ‘I can’t love my husband after he cheated, I can’t afford the house on my own, I can’t do this to the kids Read More

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Affair Recovery – Strength

Bob Marley once said “You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.” I really like this quote as it made me reflect on my own life experience. If you are faced with an affair in your marriage, it is often the most difficult time in the marriage. People always Read More

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Emotional Affairs

Emotional affairs can be a tricky area for most married couples. There is a very thin line between ‘friend’ and ‘emotional affair’. What typically happens is that the wife finds a text, email or phone call from a woman that makes the wife uncomfortable. When the wife confronts the husband, she gets ‘Geez, you are Read More

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Affair Recovery – Small Acts of Joy

One of the member’s of the community (Leslie) wrote a wonderful comment about some of the things that she does when she is looking to bring herself to a better mood. Often during the recovery of infidelity (and even before), we neglect those simple little actions that bring us joy. I remember not taking those Read More

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2013 Theme – Reclaim Your Power!!

Happy New Year!!! This is the first day of 2013, and I am excited about all of the wonderful things that this year will bring. I first want to say thanks to the community of women on this site. You have taught me one of the greatest universal truths, and that is that we are Read More

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Is my cheating spouse serious about working things out? – Part III – Transparency

The final post in this 3 part series is about Transparency after the affair. When your husband cheats, trust is shattered. In most situations, we are not talking about a little white lie; we are talking about months or even year’s worth of lying and secrets. Not only as the wife are you dealing with Read More

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Is my cheating spouse serious about working things out? – Part II – Action

When I first found out about the affair, my ex-husband said he wanted to work things out. I believed him. But in time, his actions were not adding up to the words that were coming out of his mouth. All talk – no action. I was driving the affair recovery even though he cheated! Part Read More

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Is my cheating spouse serious about working things out? – Part I – Responsibility

Many people cheat. Few put in the time and effort it takes to recover. I have noticed some significant trends among those marriages that are able to survive infidelity versus those that do not make it. In this 3 part blog post, I am going to tackle some of the considerations that should take place Read More

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Cheating Spouse and Anger

If your husband has cheated on you, then you are very familiar with the type of anger you feel after the affair. It is a type of anger you did not even know you possessed. The week you found out about your cheating husband, you probably engaged in some verbal and physical activity that you Read More