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7 Reasons Why the Other Woman Knows Your Husband Is Married and Continues To Cheat

Ladies, today I would like to shed some insight into the topic of the other woman (OW). As wives, we are often shocked that another woman would have an affair with our husband without a care in the world. What type of woman would do that? The hard core truth is that it is very Read More

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Affair Recovery and Therapy

If you take a look at my responses when people write to me, many contain advice to seek therapy. I truly believe, based on your life situation, that some of what a wife goes through once she finds out that her husband cheated is similar to post-traumatic stress. I am not a doctor; it is Read More

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Love, Marriage and Divorce – “Take It Back” – Cheating Recovery Songs

Toni Braxton and Babyface created an amazing album title “Love, Marriage and Divorce”. This creation is a wonderful collection of songs about relationships. Five stars from me, anyone who is married and experience infidelity can relate to many of these songs. Below is just one of the songs, titled “Take It Back”. Enjoy Read More

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Cheating Husband and Male Ego

Many women write to me after they discover their husband has committed adultery. It’s overwhelming at the time because you are trying to understand why your husband had an affair, and what you should do next. Eventually, I had a game plan in my mind of what would help us get back on track. It Read More

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Affair Empowerment Song – Roar

I like this song by Katy Perry. Every time I hear it, I get excited! Happy Friday Ladies Read More

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Happy New Year!

Hi Ladies, Wanted to wish everyone a 2014 filled with clarity, peace, and understanding. Everything happens for a reason, and when we are in the mist of the storm, it is so hard to find the lesson in it all. But there is a lesson. Remember no matter what you are going through, someone else Read More

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Hope after Infidelity

Hope. It’s a powerful word. It’s something we all have deep inside. It’s that little voice that comes out and says, “It will be ok.” Everyone has what I call a hope bucket, which is filled with thoughts of a better tomorrow. Sometimes the bucket is full, and sometimes it is close to empty. After Read More

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Cheating Spouse, Divorce, Jewels Update

Hi everyone, I wanted to send a quick note to give you an update into my journey. Quick overview of the past: My husband cheated on me in early 2009. I tried to work it out, but I found out that while I was working it out, he was still involved with the OW. I Read More

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Infidelelity Coach Da-Nay – listen LIVE today!

Hello Ladies, At 2:45 today, Da-Nay Macklin (Infidelity Coach Extraordinaire) will be on the Doug Banks radio show answer questions for listeners on infidelity. She is a friend and has been featured on OWN’s Unfaithful show. Please tune in for great insights and discussions, all the information to listen to the show is below. Join Read More

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Cheating Recovery Song #6 – Karyn White – Superwoman

Hi Ladies, This song is a classic, represents so many of us women who try hard to be that superwomen Read More

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Cheating Husbands and The Second Phone

Ah…what lengths most of our husbands will go through to keep the affair going. Before I created this site, if someone were to tell me the following story, I would have said what kind of sick person would go to such great lengths to lie and be deceptive. Until that ‘person’ ended up being my Read More

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Why the ‘Other Woman’ Tells the Wife about the Affair

Yes, even though it might appear I just talk to only wives on the site, I actually talk to all parties, including the other woman. And today I would like to share and interesting perspective that has led me to understand why the OW calls and tells the wife in certain situations. So here is Read More

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Talk to a lawyer after the affair – be empowered

Many women contact me after their husband cheated and state that they are in no shape to leave the marriage because they cannot make it financially by themselves. This statement is more common when kids are involved. “I can’t afford to leave.” Trust me, I understand. That is exactly what I said as well. How Read More

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Cell Phone Interaction and Married Couples

It is amazing how such a small device can cause so much drama. Within marriages all over the world, there is this debate over access to cell phones in marriage. On one hand, there are those that think that a marriage means that you are joined as one, therefore, you should have access to each Read More