Personal Encouragement

After the Affair – YOU Have To Fight For YOU

Your husband had an affair, and you were devastated. Months later, you still feel miserable. You’re lonely, lost, and you don’t feel like yourself anymore. Welcome to life after the affair. This is a stage that almost every woman goes through, so do not feel alone. The most important thing for you to do now …

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Recovering From An Affair – A Quote That Will Make You Smile

Recovering from an affair is not easy, and inspirational quotes have helped me along the way. I believe quotes are so powerful that they can literally give you a new perspective that can change your life. So today, I am going to share with you a quote I like, that helped me in personal recovery …

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When Does The Pain of the Affair End?

Many women contact me months and sometimes years after their husband’s affair, looking for an answer to why they are still in so much pain. Common questions include: Why does the pain linger on so long after the affair? How can I start to heal? One reason why it’s so difficult to get beyond the …

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Women in Recovery From the Affair – Wishing All of You the Best!!

For most women all over the world, this is a time for celebration. If you are recovering from finding out that your husband cheated, this holiday season may be more difficult for you than most. This year was the first that I spent Thanksgiving alone (once my husband picked up the kids it was just …

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I Won a Personal Battle Today, Some of You Might Be Able To Relate

Unless you’re really new to this site, you probably know that my husband and I are getting a divorce. He is aware of the fact that I am living in the house just until I save enough money to leave (which will be soon). At times, he wants to work things out, and sometimes he …

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Surviving an Affair – 3 Quick Tips

Surviving an affair is all about preventing yourself from feeling low and depressed. When your husband has an affair, you’re often so shocked and upset that you have no idea what to do next. Here are some things that have helped me in my journey to recover. 1. Remember its okay to grieve. The man …

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Cheating Husband and Mom – THANK YOU (to the moms)!!

I would like to wish everyone reading a Happy Mother’s Day, especially those moms who have or had husbands who cheat(ed) on them. There are so many situations that complicate cheating (which is already a complicated situation!), and having kids is one of them. There were times where I wanted to go away for a …

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Impact of Finding Out Your Partner Cheated – Part III

Part I of this series explored the impact of cheating on your self-esteem. Part II talked about the impact an affair has on trust within the marriage. Today, I will discuss the final impact of finding out that your husband had sex outside the marriage. This impact can actually be positive or negative. The impact …

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