Overall Thoughts on Cheating

Affair With Friend – The Great Debate

I recently read an interesting article that listed some statistics about cheating. The statistic that stood out to me stated that the majority of affairs happen with a person the cheater considers to be a “friend.” I think that many people often feel they can control themselves around “friends” of the opposite sex. However, the …

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Cheating and Maturity – The Connection

I think my husband’s affair is directly linked to the fact that we handle life’s obstacles differently. He is very quick to blame others for all of his problems; very rarely does he look within. I tend to look within first before blaming others. Not a good combination because he is always blaming me and …

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Rihanna Interview and Cheating Spouses – 4 Connections

It has been reported that singer Rihanna and Chris Brown have been involved in an abusive relationship. The whole world found out about the abuse a few months ago after Chris beat her up badly. She did her first interview a couple of weeks ago (see Rihanna Interview) where she talked about it. I was …

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Childhood Upbringing and My Cheating Spouse – The Connection

I was reading a book today called Toddler 411, because I need some advice on controlling my three-year-old daughter. Although this is a book about kids, there is one thing the author mentioned really made me think about my cheating spouse and my past relationships. The author stated that it is not ideal to be …

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Jewels “Ah Ha’ Moment About Her Cheating Spouse

You know, I love deep conversations, and I had a valuable one this weekend around infidelity. I was talking to my girlfriend about relationships, and she is clearly much wiser than I am in that department. I just met her recently, so she had no clue that my husband had cheated on me. I told …

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‘Infidelity’ vs. An ‘Open Marriage’

It’s interesting how your intuition whispers in your ear when it comes to an affair. About a month before I found out my husband was cheating, I asked him for his thoughts about “open relationships” to see how he would react. I knew something wasn’t right with us, and I thought that his answer to …

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Letter From A Woman Whose Husband Has Cheated

There’s no need to talk about me tonight. Instead, you will hear from Mashonda, a woman who found out her husband was cheating with a singer named Alica Keys. I read the open letter to Alicia that she posted online and was surprised to see that some of her feelings were familiar. Remember ladies, you …

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Life After the Affair – Now what?

How do I function with life after the affair? I find myself spending and embarrassing amount of time thinking to myself “should I stay or should I leave?”. Should I stay for the kids or should I leave and break up the family?  This is what a cheating man does to a woman, makes her …

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