Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

So I know I am a bit late (thanks to TIVO), but I just go finished watching Whitney Houston on Oprah.  Which it was interesting to hear about the drugs, the money and her lifestyle, I was totally glued to every word she said about her relationship with her former husband, Bobbi Brown.  Ladies, she fell into the trap many of us fall into, including myself.  Trying to lower your standards to make your husband feel like ‘the man’.  Now I do feel for Whitney in the aspect that it is very very difficult with all of her money to make a man feel like a man.  But I was so surprised she was going through that, because I felt like I went through that too.  I make more money than my husband, so I felt that I would listen to him more, agree to do things his way even though I hated it, not go out as much to make him feel good, all so that he can feel like ‘the man’.  And just like what happened to Whitney, you think your doing the right thing, and it backfires, and he cheats.  You could tell Whitney was hurt by the fact after all that they went through, he would disrespect her by bringing another women into her house – my man did the same thing.  So again, I don’t really care to comment about her drugs, her attitude, comeback, whatever.  All I care about is that for one moment in time I felt a strong ‘cheating husband’ connection with her during the show.  And even though it was through the TV, I felt so good knowing that this epidemic of men having affairs in a disrespectful manner is something that happens on all financial levels.  I hope she is able to heal those wounds and come back a strong women out of the experience.  Till next time, stay strong, you are not alone.