Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Yes, it sucks. Yes I said it, and yes I am embarrassed that I put myself in this situation.  I found out my husband cheated in March 2009.  August 1^st 2009,  I realized it was over.  And with two kids, a huge mortgage in my name, and bills galore, I am too much in debt to leave. And ladies, this is not on of those states where he is making some good dough so if I leave I wouldn’t be able to make it.  I make more than him.  I was very careless in my early days, and racked up a good amount of debt, including an extra 12,000$ for the wedding.  When we first met, HE HAD NO DEBT.  Now he is just as bad as me.  He use to be able to contribute a good portion of his check to the home bills, now, about 25%, all because of his debt.  That caused me to have to find the other 75% to pay the bills, which ended up being credit cards, ect. ect. – you get the story.  The sad part is, even though I caught my husband cheating, I have two kids and a mortgage.  If I leave, he can’t pay the mortgage with his income alone, if he leaves, ditto.  So either way I am screwed.  I am working on trying to get a better job with more money, so wish me luck.  Not sure exactly what I am going to do, but for now, we are still living together.  Funny thing is, because of my endless research, trial and error, and just luck, I am actually much happier than I was…let’s say….7 months ago (yes, before I even knew about the affair!) Stay strong ladies, till next time!!