Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

I think the moment when you actually take the ring off in a marriage is really a strong statement. I actually took my ring off in anger (weeks ago), but decided not to put it back on as a sign of strength. I think many times as women we hold on to that ring and keep it on because it is so safe and secure. We don’t have to explain, we don’t have to answer questions, it just feels right.

I actually took my ring off to show that I can be confident and proud with or without the ring. I almost think that my husband was using the fact that I wore my ring as a sign that everything is ok. Now mind you ladies, I have a husband that is pretty insensitive and slightly on the controlling side. So I did this as a way to show him that I don’t need a ring to feel safe. I am proud, sexy, and beautiful with or without it. A ring or marriage does not define me as a person. And we all have a choice, just like I chose not to cheat, I chose to wear the ring out of respect of our marriage, and I am choosing not to wear it.

I am in no way, shape or form advising you to do the same. You have to realize I am at a point in my recovery where I am very confident (don’t get me wrong, I still struggle) in my decisions and I have a game plan moving forward. I chose to take the ring off because I was using it as a crutch and as a symbol of my confidence and ability to be a great wife. I don’t need that anymore, I know I am a great person, wife, and mother with or without it. I hope you feel the same way as well. Good night ladies!!