Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

I met a women yesterday that told me she found out her man was cheating.  She found out right before her birthday.  It has only been 10 days since it happened, and she has lost weight and trying to get her appetite back.  It is so hard to eat, sleep or think straight when you find out your husband is cheating.  I think what makes it so bad is that we sacrifice SO MUCH for our men.  We bend over backwards to pay bills, make ends meet, and try to keep a somewhat structured lifestyle.  I almost feel like today’s men want you to be perfect or else they will cheat.  Fortunately, the lady that I spoke with had a great energy and high spirit.  She started communicating with me out of the blue and felt comfortable enough to share something very personal.  It was great for me because I could talk face to face with someone that has gone through a similar situation.  It was great for her because she was able to share her story and release some of the tension.  I hope she is able to realize soon that she is beautiful beyond measure, and that she did not deserve to be treated the way she was treated.  There is something better for us ladies, but we have to stay strong and believe there is something better.  I am not at the place right now where I am focusing on that ‘better’ part being a man, but I sure know for a fact something is coming that is much better for me.  We do not go through trials like this our life for nothing, is serves as a purpose to serve others.  I hope I have enough wisdom and insight to use the situations that I have been through to help others, if that is my purpose to do so.  Have a great weekend everyone….till next time…..