Sex

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Do Cheating Husbands Use Condoms?

by Jewels June 17, 2011

After the affair, trying to work on the marriage with your cheating husband, especially when it comes to sex can be difficult.  You can determine how difficult this was for me by reading this previous post Sex After the Affair that explains what I went through when I was trying to salvage my marriage. But [...]

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Cheating Husband Triggers and Sexual Abuse Triggers

by Jewels November 12, 2010

I know it’s been a while, I was transiting to my new apartment, and everything is going well. Today, I wanted to talk about sexual abuse, triggers and affairs, and their connection. I first learned about triggers during my marriage. For some reason, every time I got pregnant (hormones do things to you!!), when he [...]

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The Stress of Sex and Your Cheating Spouse

by Jewels December 8, 2009

Right now I am living with my husband (aka cheating spouse), for the sake of living together. There is no sex, and communication is only because of our kids. I have expressed to him that it is over because of his affair and the fact that I cannot get over his behavior, and that is [...]

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My Husband Cheated – 5 Reasons Why I Now Hate Having Sex With Him

by Jewels October 25, 2009

Sex after the affair with my husband is really getting to me. Sex is a major part of a marriage. When there is infidelity in the marriage, it messes up the sex thing and really makes sex 10 times more complicated. See post Stress, Sex and Affair Recovery for more details. I am at the [...]

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Cheating and Sex and Communication Breakdown

by Jewels October 1, 2009

This sucks.  I expect after an event like this that my husband would be warm and understanding, easy to communicate with, and most of all, humble.  Instead of that, what I get is a huge communication GAP with my cheating husband that had an affair.  Let me explain. Have you ever had a conversation with [...]

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