Recovery

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When Does The Pain of the Affair End?

by Jewels March 8, 2011

Many women contact me months and sometimes years after the affair, looking for an answer as to why they still feel like they are in so much pain.  Why does the pain linger on so long after the affair, and how can you start to heal? Of course, healing after the affair is a loaded [...]

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Women in Recovery From the Affair – Wishing All of You the Best!!

by Jewels December 24, 2010

For most women all over the world, this is a time for holiday and celebration. If you are recovering from finding out your husband cheated, this season may be more difficult than most. This year was the first that I spent Thanksgiving alone (once my husband picked up the kids it was just me). And [...]

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Affair Recovery – First Step

by Jewels December 2, 2010

Hello Ladies, Today I wanted to share with you something that really helped me along my recovery journey. We often are so distraught by the affair, it’s hard to know and understand how to make the first step towards recovery. There are many things that one can do once they are in the ‘recovery zone’ [...]

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A Secret That Helps My Affair Recovery

by Jewels September 23, 2010

Hello Ladies, My husband had an affair, but life is great! I want to share with you a secret that I briefly talk about in my next ebook (which will be out by the end of the year), that has done wonders for my energy and recovery. This is something that I started to do [...]

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After the Affair – 5 Emotional Triggers

by Jewels July 12, 2010

Dealing with your husband cheating is like going on a roller coaster with your emotions. Things do get better with time. With that said, there is something called emotional triggers that will take place after the affair. An emotional trigger is something that brings back memories of the affair and sometimes takes you back to [...]

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Recovery From Cheating

by Jewels June 21, 2010

Ladies, I know the people that read my post are at different stages in their recovery. Some are fresh with pains so deep they wonder how they are going to get out of bed tomorrow. Some have lived in misery for a while and wonder when things will start to look positive again. And some [...]

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Husband After the Affair – I Want to Work Things Out

by Jewels September 22, 2009

I caught my husband cheating in March 2009. And he claims he wants to work things out. And I am really, really tired. It is going to take a ton of effort to rebuild the trust, is it worth it? I don’t know. Relationships are already hard enough without such a complicated dynamic such as [...]

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Affair Recovery Stranger

by Jewels September 19, 2009

From an infidelity standpoint, it’s so interesting how I find it easier to talk to strangers about the affair versus people close to me. I guess it’s because the embarrassment/judgment about your husband cheating factor is not there. I met a woman yesterday that told me she found out her husband was having an affair. [...]

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After the Affair Paranoia

by Jewels September 14, 2009

Now that my spouse has cheated, I am getting a little paranoid. I found out he cheated, and he kept going with her for months, all while I was thinking we were ‘working on the marriage’. I feel so used, and at times I feel like a fool. The lack of trust after the affair [...]

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