When your husband has an affair, it puts you in such a difficult spot. Often times as women we are so shocked and upset, we have no idea what do next. Here are some things that helped me in my journey to recovery from the affair.
1. It’s ok …

After the affair, something changed in how I look at work. The BS that I (and everyone else) has to deal with at work seems to get on my nerves a little more. I usually love to figure out why this happens but I guess since I had …

I recently read an interesting article that listed out in a nice format some statistics about cheating. You can view the information by using the link at the bottom of this post.
The statistic that stood out stated that the majority of affairs are ones that are with ‘friends’. …

Dealing with your husband cheating is like going on a roller coaster with your emotions. Things do get better with time. With that said, there is something called emotional triggers that will take place. An emotional trigger is something that brings back memories of the affair and …

My husband cheated. It was his action, not mine. He decided to go outside the marriage. There is no excuse, he had many other options, but he choose the option which has left me hurt, but not depressed, disappointed, but not defeated, weak, but not empty. …

I think my husband’s affair is directly linked to the fact that we are on different maturity levels. We think differently about situations. He is very simple minded, he blames others for almost all situations in his life. I read that when you do that, it is …

I finally told my dad today about my husband cheating on me.  I told my mom and sis already, but I think I really feared the disappointment from my dad.  My dad is big into family and really wants me to think twice about all major decisions because of my …

I am a little frustrated today with the affair.  I know I have to eventually make a decision about my cheating spouse and I am in denial, trying not to think about it, but it keeps popping up.  As you know, me and husband still live in the same house.  …

Sex is a major part of a marriage. When there is infidelity in the marriage, it messes up the sex thing and really makes sex 10 times more complicated.  I am at the point in my marriage right now that because my husband had an affair, I hate sex right …

Sometimes I hear people say, if only I can be like famous person x or y…..I am like…really?  I feel bad for most of those stars that have no privacy.  Those stars that can leave their house without 10 camera’s flashing at them.  Jon and Kate plus 8 made the …