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Surviving an Affair – 3 Quick Tips

by Jewels August 20, 2010

Surviving an affair is literally about preventing yourself from feeling low and depressed. When your husband has an affair, it puts you in such a difficult spot. Often times, as women we are so shocked and upset, we have no idea what to do next. Here are some things that helped me in my journey [...]

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After the Affair – Has Your Job Cheated On You Too?

by Jewels August 2, 2010

After the affair, something changed in how I look at work. The BS that I (and everyone else) has to deal with at work seems to get on my nerves a little more. There is something positive in my frustrations with the BS at work, every time I have a day like this where something [...]

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Affair With Friend – The Great Debate

by Jewels July 20, 2010

I recently read an interesting article that listed out in a nice format some statistics about cheating. You can view the information by using the link at the bottom of this post. The statistic that stood out stated that the majority of affairs are ones that are with ‘friends’. I think as humans, we think [...]

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After the Affair – 5 Emotional Triggers

by Jewels July 12, 2010

Dealing with your husband cheating is like going on a roller coaster with your emotions. Things do get better with time. With that said, there is something called emotional triggers that will take place after the affair. An emotional trigger is something that brings back memories of the affair and sometimes takes you back to [...]

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Husband Had An Affair and You Need Some Encouragement?

by Jewels June 9, 2010

My husband cheated. It was his action, not mine. He decided to go outside the marriage. There is no excuse, he had many other options, but he choose the option which has left me hurt, but not depressed, disappointed, but not defeated, weak, but not empty. I am a woman who is a survivor. I [...]

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Cheating and Maturity – The Connection

by Jewels March 22, 2010

I think my husband’s affair is directly linked to the fact that we are on different maturity levels. We think differently about situations. He is very simple minded, he blames others for almost all situations in his life. I read that when you do that, it is a maturity thing. As you become more mature, [...]

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Cheating Spouse: Telling Your Parents

by Jewels January 13, 2010

I finally told my dad today about my husband cheating on me. I told my mom and sister already, but I think I really feared the disappointment from my dad. My dad is big into family and really wants me to think twice about all major decisions because of my little ones. I thought he [...]

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Is My Cheating Spouse Worth the Help??

by Jewels December 15, 2009

I am a little frustrated today with the affair. I know I have to eventually make a decision about my cheating spouse and I am in denial, trying not to think about it, but it keeps popping up. As you know, my husband and I still live in the same house. I really want to [...]

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My Husband Cheated – 5 Reasons Why I Now Hate Having Sex With Him

by Jewels October 25, 2009

Sex after the affair with my husband is really getting to me. Sex is a major part of a marriage. When there is infidelity in the marriage, it messes up the sex thing and really makes sex 10 times more complicated. See post Stress, Sex and Affair Recovery for more details. I am at the [...]

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Husband After the Affair – I Want to Work Things Out

by Jewels September 22, 2009

I caught my husband cheating in March 2009. And he claims he wants to work things out. And I am really, really tired. It is going to take a ton of effort to rebuild the trust, is it worth it? I don’t know. Relationships are already hard enough without such a complicated dynamic such as [...]

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