Ladies,
I know the people that read my post are at different stages in their recovery. Some are fresh with pains so deep they wonder how they are going to get out of bed tomorrow. Some have lived in misery for a while and wonder when things will start to look positive again. And some are in a stage of recovery where they are in a calm and positive place. No matter what your situation is, or where you are in your recovery journey, the fact of the matter is, YOU CAN RECOVER.
When I talk in terms of recovery, please note that I am talking about your own personal recovery. There are tons of books and information on how to rebuild your marriage – and I encourage you to seek out that information if you decide to work on your marriage. In my opinion, your personal recovery is the most important recovery out of the two.
Your personal recovery stems from the fact that when your husband cheats, it rocks your world – mentally. It shakes you to your core, your image, your life, your soul is changed forever. And in order to recover successfully, there are a series of steps that you must take. Step one is making sure that you have the confidence to believe that you (personally) can recovery from this experience a better person. You have to believe it is possible.
If your at a place where you can’t see it yet, don’t worry, I have confidence in you that you will get to this place. We owe it to ourselves to get to this place. Why? Because your husband cheating should not define you as a women. In order for this not to happen, you must have faith that you can recover.
Take Care Ladies,
Jewels
It will get better, but you will not be able to see it at this time because the pain of finding out is so thick that you can’t see anything else. Just finding out is one of the most traumatic times of your life. Your not going to be able to control your emotions for a while, and that is ok. Take care of yourself, try to get some sleep and take some time to be alone and think about the situation. Things will change, your emotions will get better, and you will recover from this experience. I wish you the best, and the only way you have to go from this point is up. I also recommend you read my free ebook, it might help you with some of your feelings. I will hope the best for you and your situation.
6:52 PM
Hello,
I just discovered my husband is cheating on me, I’m having mix feelings, I want to leave, then I don’t. I having terrible rage somehow doesn’t seem like it not going to ever change. I’m deeply hurt. Will this hurt ever go away.