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6 Reasons Why Our Husbands Cheat On Us with Women That Don’t Have It Together

by Jewels December 15, 2010

Hello Ladies, This is a common reaction once we find out who our husband has been having an affair with. The ‘OW’ typically is not the brightest, prettiest girl on the block, and I have a couple of theories on why, and I would be interested in hearing your perspective. 6 reasons why our husbands [...]

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Affair Recovery Music – Song 1

by Jewels December 6, 2010

I decided that I am going to start including some music that has really connected with me through the affair. Some songs will make you cry, some will be encouraging, and some might not do anything for you. My hope is that you can find yourself in each of the songs that I post. Hopefully, [...]

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Affair Recovery – First Step

by Jewels December 2, 2010

Hello Ladies, Today I wanted to share with you something that really helped me along my recovery journey. We often are so distraught by the affair, it’s hard to know and understand how to make the first step towards recovery. There are many things that one can do once they are in the ‘recovery zone’ [...]

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After the Affair – The Different Types of Crying

by Jewels November 22, 2010

I have come to realize that there are 2 different types of crying associated with finding out your husband having an affair. Both are very important towards your recovery and it is actually important to understand these two types. Type I – Hurt/Anger Cry – This is the crying that comes with the pain of [...]

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Cheating Husband Triggers and Sexual Abuse Triggers

by Jewels November 12, 2010

I know it’s been a while, I was transiting to my new apartment, and everything is going well. Today, I wanted to talk about sexual abuse, triggers and affairs, and their connection. I first learned about triggers during my marriage. For some reason, every time I got pregnant (hormones do things to you!!), when he [...]

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After the Affair – Time to Move Out of the House

by Jewels October 31, 2010

In the next two weeks, I am moving out of my house into an apartment.  My mom and sister are flying in town tomorrow to help me move this week.   It’s really bitter sweet, especially because I have kids. I know they are going to be so confused in the coming months, not understanding why [...]

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Cougar Town and Why Do We Help Our Cheating Husbands?

by Jewels October 22, 2010

I just recently watched my first episode of Cougar Town, which is a sitcom about a divorced woman entering in the dating scene again. Jules (almost like my name!!) divorced her cheating husband. Throughout the episode, even though they are divorced, she feels the need to help him. Towards the end of the show, she [...]

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If Your Husband Committed Infidelity, Be Prepared to Face the Most Difficult Predicament You Will Ever Face in Your Marriage

by Jewels October 12, 2010

There is no other lower point in your marriage than finding out your husband committed infidelity. It is the most difficult situation to overcome in a marriage. It literally lifts your entire world into crisis, anger, and fear mode. If your husband cheated, it leaves you with the most difficult predicament you will ever face [...]

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Infidelity in Marriage – Don’t Believe the Hype!!

by Jewels October 6, 2010

In the past couple of weeks, I have seen several articles on infidelity that seem to suggest that the wife is all at fault. The articles say ‘here is why your man cheated’ or ‘here is why men stray’. Then the article proceeds to portray the ‘other woman’ as this non-nagging, care-free, fun loving woman. [...]

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A Secret That Helps My Affair Recovery

by Jewels September 23, 2010

Hello Ladies, My husband had an affair, but life is great! I want to share with you a secret that I briefly talk about in my next ebook (which will be out by the end of the year), that has done wonders for my energy and recovery. This is something that I started to do [...]

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