Sandra Bullock is a great actor, but she now can join our circle, because her husband cheated on her.
This is what makes me upset. Sandra is like me in that she is a good girl. She is the American standard for good girl. But of course, her husband …

I think my husband’s affair is directly linked to the fact that we are on different maturity levels. We think differently about situations. He is very simple minded, he blames others for almost all situations in his life. I read that when you do that, it is …

Yesterday, I decided to go to a bowling party that a former co-worker was having. My girlfriend went with me. Last week I wanted to go to a conference and my husband said he had plans – so i got a babysitter. This weekend he said he …

I get this question almost everyday from my cheating husband (Do you really want to end this? ) I don’t want to be affectionate , because then I am leading him on and in his opinion ‘playing games’. I struggled for a while with this issue. It is …

Today was a great day for me. For years, I denied myself. I denied myself of getting new clothes. I denied myself of going out with friends. I denied myself of watching tv, having fun, doing what I like doing, not what everyone else likes doing. …

So i watched Tiger make his public apology yesterday, and it was lame for a couple of reasons.
1.) Way to scripted.  It’s like he is a robot now.  I almost feel someone is telling him how to execute every move, and regardless of his actions, being a ‘robot’ for the …

When you have young kids in such an environment of pain and sadness caused by cheating, it is really hard.  Sometimes I find myself getting way to frustrated at my kids, and really I am frustrated with my own situation.  Kids are so young and innocent, they don’t know such …

Hello Ladies,
Marriage is really tough when you find out your husband has cheated.  The reason why is that you and your husband are so vested.  You typically put in a year’s worth of time and effort just to get married.  You typically spend a good deal of money with the …

Hello Ladies,
Hope everyone is doing well.  I have spent the past 4-5 months creating a free e-book for women who discovered that their husband cheated.  The book is titled – What to expect after you caught your husband cheating – A women’s guide to sanity in a world of hurt.  …

Finding our your spouse has cheated can have tremendous effects on your health.  Some days I feel very weak because I am carrying such a load of resentment and anger, and feelings have an energy to them.  Because I carry that load (with cheating, some days are up, some are …