There is no lower point in your marriage than finding out that your husband committed infidelity. It literally turns your entire world upside down. Anger, fear, and pain become your best friends. In fact, it really is the most difficult situation to overcome in a marriage. The same question plays over and over again like a messed up recorder “Should I stay or should I leave, should I stay or should I leave, should I stay or should I leave?”
If you’re in this situation remember that if you couldn’t handle it, you would not have been given it. Sometimes just hearing that, and hearing that the situation is difficult, will make you not feel like you are going crazy. It is an extremely difficult situation.
Take time to be still and think holistically about what has occurred. You do not have to rush the decision, but at the same time do not torture yourself for years with the decision. That is going to be too painful for you to bear. Trust life and trust that whatever decision you make is the right one for you. It is a hard decision to make but once you make it, you will feel like a huge weight has been lifted. I am not advising you to stay or leave, because you have to make that call. But if you ever feel like you are overwhelmed with the choice, take a deep breath, pause, and know that you are not alone.