Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

So my husband cheating in March 2009.   And he claims he wants to work things out.  And I am really, really tired.  It is going to take a ton of effort to rebuild the trust, is it worth it? I don’t know.  Relationships are already hard enough without such a complicated dynamic such as infidelity.  Why does he want to work things out?  Part of me feels he wants to work things out because if it doesn’t work out, I think he will feel like a failure to his family.  The fear of embarrassment is a powerful emotion, people go through great lengths to protect themselves from embarrassment.  So just in case he was using that as his reason to ‘work things out’, I told the family.  Yes, everyone in the family knows what he did.  There is much more to this story which I will share in due time but just know that this move is a very bold move and it opens up a huge can of worms, so proceed with caution.  I did not tell the family until 3 months after I found out,  and there was a very serious reason for me doing what I did.  Anyways, look forward to hearing if anyone else thinks this is why some men want to work things out.