Yesterday I was listening to the radio when a guy called in complaining that his wife is totally different now that she is pregnant. I almost felt like he was using her fussiness to make a good case for cheating. His big thing was ‘during the 1st pregnancy she did not act like this’.
OK. I must speak on this. Here are 4 things men must know about…Cheating While Pregnant….
1. Since you have never been pregnant, let me tell you something, sometimes you feel like shit, not for 1 day or 1 month, but during the pregnancy. My 1st pregnancy was pretty good. The second, I was depressed, didn’t even want to leave the house. At times like these, you really need your husband to be supportive, not go and cheat.
2. It is really selfish to cheat on your wife while she is pregnant. I remember not being able to sleep because my husband was not home and didn’t come home until 3am. I remember him not answering his phone, and me thinking, what if it was something wrong. You really feel unloved.
3. Men, don’t believe the TV hype that women are so horny when they are pregnant. Every women is different. So telling your wife, come on, you should want to have sex all the time, doesn’t make you feel good.
4.If you wife finds out you cheated while she is pregnant, this is totally devastating. The women is totally helpless and stuck, and to put your wife in this position while she is carrying your child is cowardly.
So, like I stated before, that excuse that she is ‘different’ while she is pregnant is lame. Marriage is suppose to be for better or worse, and if you can’t tough it out for 9 months, then why did you get married in the first place?
Ladies – Please, please know that Cheating Spouses are known for cheating when the female is pregnant. Yes, it is horrible, but unfortunately I read the statistic that it is the most common time that a man cheats…..
Thank you Ashley for your comment. You are not alone, and I have faith that every women who goes through this experience will recover. Take care (of you and your little one).
6:40 PM
It’s nice to know that I’m not all alone in this situation. I hurt for my baby and all the other women this has happened to.