Comments on: Cheating Husbands – Why Are There So Many? http://www.acheatinghusband.com/hello-world/ After the Affair Site for wives who have been through the painful situation of a cheating husband Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:16:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jewels http://www.acheatinghusband.com/hello-world/comment-page-1/#comment-2880 Jewels Wed, 02 Feb 2011 14:48:53 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/wordpress/?p=1#comment-2880 Hello Lisa, Sorry to hear about your situation. It's SO common for women to stay because they feel they can't afford to leave. I felt the same way. I think the problem you have now is that he doesn't ever expect you to leave because you have taken him back before for his disrespectful behavior. If I were in your shoes, I would do two things. First is start thinking of a plan to leave. It might not be now, or even a year from now, but if you think hard enough, there is a way out. It might not be the lifestyle that you have enjoyed, but at a certain point your going to decide that your happiness might be worth a downgrade in lifestyle. I know it's hard to see right now, if someone would of told me that in 2009, I would of thought they were crazy! The second thing I would do is start to think about Lisa. Cheating husbands consumes your life and can be very depressing. What does Lisa want to do? Do you have any hobbies or interests that you have neglected? There is nothing wrong with staying married, BUT turning your focus towards your interests. You can't change people, but you can change yourself and your focus and hopefully live a happier life until your in a better state. I wish you the best. -Jewels Hello Lisa,

Sorry to hear about your situation. It’s SO common for women to stay because they feel they can’t afford to leave. I felt the same way. I think the problem you have now is that he doesn’t ever expect you to leave because you have taken him back before for his disrespectful behavior. If I were in your shoes, I would do two things. First is start thinking of a plan to leave. It might not be now, or even a year from now, but if you think hard enough, there is a way out. It might not be the lifestyle that you have enjoyed, but at a certain point your going to decide that your happiness might be worth a downgrade in lifestyle. I know it’s hard to see right now, if someone would of told me that in 2009, I would of thought they were crazy! The second thing I would do is start to think about Lisa. Cheating husbands consumes your life and can be very depressing. What does Lisa want to do? Do you have any hobbies or interests that you have neglected? There is nothing wrong with staying married, BUT turning your focus towards your interests. You can’t change people, but you can change yourself and your focus and hopefully live a happier life until your in a better state. I wish you the best.
-Jewels

]]> By: Lisa http://www.acheatinghusband.com/hello-world/comment-page-1/#comment-2875 Lisa Tue, 01 Feb 2011 19:54:55 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/wordpress/?p=1#comment-2875 Me and my husband have been together for about 21 years and the marriage has been through alot of changes, I have left my husband several times because of cheating. I always come back to him, because I am a christian and I think that is what God wants me to do. I left him again in october 2009 and came back in May 2010, and find out about a week ago that he is cheating again, this time with a girl he had been messing with while we were separated I am at a lost for how I feel. I am one of those that cant leave because I dont make enough to take care of myself so I stay. I think this time was worst then all the other times because this time this person has been around for over a year, usually he cheat and then he stop. But he keeps going back to this one. And if I felt that I could take care of myself I would leave, but now I am still here trying to be a good wife, do I think he will cheat again of course. But what can I do. Me and my husband have been together for about 21 years and the marriage has been through alot of changes, I have left my husband several times because of cheating. I always come back to him, because I am a christian and I think that is what God wants me to do. I left him again in october 2009 and came back in May 2010, and find out about a week ago that he is cheating again, this time with a girl he had been messing with while we were separated I am at a lost for how I feel. I am one of those that cant leave because I dont make enough to take care of myself so I stay. I think this time was worst then all the other times because this time this person has been around for over a year, usually he cheat and then he stop. But he keeps going back to this one. And if I felt that I could take care of myself I would leave, but now I am still here trying to be a good wife, do I think he will cheat again of course. But what can I do.

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