Dealing with a cheating spouse can have tremendous effects on your health. Some days I feel very weak because I am carrying such a load of resentment and anger, and feelings have an energy to them. Because I carry that load (with cheating, some days are up, some are down), my body takes on that stress. Since I found out my husband had cheated, I have been to the doctor at least 15 times last year – 15 TIMES!
Are you dealing with a cheating spouse? Does this sound familiar?
This is coming from a person that didn’t even go to the doctor for the yearly check-up because I felt fine. This just goes to show how stress can impact your health. Most of the visits were because of weird things, once I got a bad crook in my neck and after 4 days of not being able to turn it, went to the doctor. Had some serious back pain, went to the doctor. Got an infection in my leg, went to the doctor, had 9 days of serious chest pain, went to the doctor (by the way, the chest pain I think was caused by Chondritis, a condition that is frustrating and increases by your stress level). It is crazy for me that I went to the doctor so much. Although I still have pain, I have learned to control my emotions and not let certain things get me all worked up. I don’t engage much with my husband in conversation anymore, because I know it will cause me such pain disappointment, and health problems, and at the end of the day, I need to be healthy for me, and for my kids.
So for me, dealing with a cheating spouse is about trying to avoid stress at all costs because my body is literally not able to handle it. When I get stressed, I lose weight, so people have been noticing. I am not proud that I let this get to me in a way where my health is affected, but I am learning every day. And as long as I am learning, I am empowered to improve and make a change, which is what life is all about. Till next time ladies, stay healthy!!
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