Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

I always tell my husband, it wasn’t the act of cheating that I am so mad about, it is the other stuff.  I just realized what one of the ‘other things’ is.  My husband is the protector.  He is the one that makes sure the door is locked and that no body messes with his wife.  He is also the type that is slightly controlling.  He is not a freakish controlling to where he punches me in the face if I stay out too late, his is very, very subtle.  It’s like, ‘oh, you want to go out tonight, why don’t we go out together’.  But when his but goes out alone, I don’t complain.  Or ‘why did you stay out so late at the corporate holiday party’, or ‘why do you always go out with so and so’.  Again, not much, but just enough to make me more reserve.  Whenever I try to put on my I am women hear me roar, he seems to calm it back down.  I AM MAD I LET HIM DO THAT.  MORE MAD AT MYSELF THAN I AM MAD AT HIM.

Dear Cheating Husband: I AM TIRED OF BEING CONTROLLED.  I don’t want to be married yes for the fact that my husband cheated but second because I am so sick of being questioned and controlled.  All the while my husband goes out and *)sjk(*) somebody and to this day still tries to control.  I am going to be happy the day I can go out on my own, without having to answer to anybody.  I ever heard there are relationships where women can go out with friends and have some alone time without feeling bad or being questioned.  I bet those husbands aren’t cheating!!  Stay strong ladies, till next time.