Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Another cheating spouse story. I have watched this terrible and sad story of John and Elizabeth Edwards. I really wish that Elizabeth got out of the relationship sooner. It’s almost as if I feel she wanted so much to work things out. As women, we do this all the time. We want things to work out so much, often at the sacrifice of our own happiness. I think Elizabeth did the best she could to support John after the incident, but like most cheating spouses, he couldn’t stop lying to her. He didn’t tell her the whole story. How painful is that to support John and what he told you only to find out it is a lie?? On the today show, Elizabeth said that John is not the same person she married. I am glad she realized this. This is a pivotal point in a relationship. Once your husband cheats, you have to realize that your both going to change (yes both of you). It’s a traumatic event and you never know what type of person you are going to get when it’s all said and done. One husband can come our of the situation more loving and grateful than even, another husband can become vindictive and selfish. At a certain point and time you have to evaluate what type of person he has become (an of course evaluate the changes within yourself), and see if it’s still a good fit. It’s a hard decision, but in Elizabeth’s case, I am glad she finally sees that John is not right for her in this stage of her life. I know she has cancer and she really needs to be in a loving supporting environment, with positive energy. Even if that is alone, it’s better than being around negativity and lies. I keep telling myself that I will read her book, I got to get around doing it. If anyone has read it, let me know your thoughts!!