Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Finding our your spouse has cheated can have tremendous effects on your health.  Some days I feel very weak because I am carrying such a load of resentment and anger, and feelings have an energy to them.  Because I carry that load (with cheating, some days are up, some are down), my body takes on that stress.  Since I found out my husband had cheated, I have been to the doctor at least 15 times last year – 15 TIMES!  This is coming from a person that didn’t even go to the doctor for the yearly check-up because I felt fine.  This just goes to show how stress can effect your health.  Most of the visits were because of weird things, once I got a bad crook in my neck and after 4 days of not being able to turn it, went to the doc.  Had some serious back pain, went to the doc.  Got an infection in my leg, went to the doc, had 9 days of serious chest pain, went to the doc (by the way, the chest pain I think was caused by Chondritis, a condition that is frustrating and increases by your stress level.  It is crazy to me that I went to the doctor so much.  Although I still have pain, I have learned to control my emotions and not let certain things get me all worked up.  I don’t engage my husband in conversation much anymore, because I know if will cause me such pain and disappointment.  So I try to avoid stress at all costs because my body is not able to handle it.  When I stress, I lose weight, so people have been noticing.  I am not proud that I let this get to me in a way where my health is effected, but I am learning every day.  And as long as I am learning, I am empowered to improve and make a change, which is what life is all about.  Till next time ladies, stay healthy!!