Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

I came across this article today which was interesting, it basically said that facebook is to blame for a whopping 1 out of every 5 divorces – http://mygloss.com/geek/2009/12/31/1-in-5-divorces-blame-facebook/.

What the article doesn’t explain is why Facebook causes divorce.  Here are the 5 top reasons that Facebook gets married couples in trouble.

1.) It is easy to get caught up in a photo with Facebook tagging.  I look at all of my husbands pics, including the one where he was dancing with another girl at some party – JERK!!   If you are cheating, and someone tags you in a photo with another women because they thought it was your wife, it’s over.

2.)Here is how it goes.  You both join Facebook. People start ‘friending’ you.  Your husband now has all these friends that are women, and your like, who the hell are all of these women….it’s like the energizer bunny, they keep coming and coming.  This causes nothing but drama for married folks….

3.)Your ex’s always seek you out on Facebook and friend you.  Facebook is like a candy jar for old flames to reach out to you.  Again, this spells nothing but trouble.

4.) These women that are your husband’s friends don’t get the fact that he is married, and post’s comments on his wall that make you want to punch them in the face because they are literally flirting via words!

5.)Easy entry for the ‘other women’ to contact you.  With Facebook, you don’t have to be friends with someone to email them.  My husband was smart enough to know not to friend the person he was sleeping with, but she was smart enough to email me via Facebook with all the details of the affair.

And the crazy thing is, these 5 reasons are all things that cause drama, without your wife even knowing your password!!  I know one husband/wife couple that don’t even use Facebook because of the potential drama – pretty smart.  I know another that won’t friend each other, because of the potential drama…ok.

All I know for sure is that the worst thing that you can do is friend ‘the other women’ on Facebook – to me, that is outright dumb.  Because the minute they get mad, they have the power to embarrass you, which i really don’t care about, but they have the potential to really embarrass your wife, which isn’t cool at all.  Stay Strong Ladies, till next time……