So John Edwards, had an affair, had unprotected sex, and got the women pregnant, great job. His wife is really resilient. In some weird way I feel that men cheat on their wives at times when the wives really need them the most (cancer, pregnancy, depression). Anyways, this is a really tough situation. First you have to deal with infidelity, now you have to deal with a child outside of the marriage, that has to be emotionally scarring. A person is born into this world out of a situation that is so painful to you. You can not be hateful towards the child, because they did not come into this world by their own means, they are innocent by nature. At the same time, every time you hear about the child, it brings back memories of lying and deceit, and the pain that your husband has caused. With all of the diseases and things out there, men still have unprotected sex with ease. Again, like most dumb men, John Edwards trusted a women who he thought was on his side. She probably told him she was on the pill, and got pregnant on purpose as an attempt to pull him away from his family. Who wins in the end – nobody. So lesson for all of you cheating men – DON’T TRUST THE OTHER WOMEN – SHE WILL SCREW YOU OVER!! Here is food for thought, how about trusting your wife, the one that has been there for you…..naw, that makes too much sense. Good night ladies!!