http://www.acheatinghusband.com/cheating-and-maturity-the-connection/ After the Affair Site for wives who have been through the painful situation of a cheating husband Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:16:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/cheating-and-maturity-the-connection/comment-page-1/#comment-32192 Jewels Wed, 21 Sep 2011 22:43:53 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=230#comment-32192 Daisy Yes - we have the same type of husband. He blamed everything on me. And once I figured this out, I brought it to him like I just knew he was going to have an 'ah ha' moment, and all he did was blame me for bringing it up lol!! I really think it is a maturity issue as well, it's almost like he has an internal mechanism that causes him to blame everyone else for his problems. And you can seriously get wrapped up in believing it, I did for a LONG time. Now I look back and think how sad it is that he blames others for everything because when you do that, you have no control to change your life. Daisy
Yes – we have the same type of husband. He blamed everything on me. And once I figured this out, I brought it to him like I just knew he was going to have an ‘ah ha’ moment, and all he did was blame me for bringing it up lol!! I really think it is a maturity issue as well, it’s almost like he has an internal mechanism that causes him to blame everyone else for his problems. And you can seriously get wrapped up in believing it, I did for a LONG time. Now I look back and think how sad it is that he blames others for everything because when you do that, you have no control to change your life.

]]> http://www.acheatinghusband.com/cheating-and-maturity-the-connection/comment-page-1/#comment-32142 Daisy Wed, 21 Sep 2011 18:28:01 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=230#comment-32142 I fought, cried and tried to discuss my feelings to him and how I felt about his actions. It was frustrating because he was passive aggressive. He told everybody want they wanted to here and did exactly the opposite. OMG..it is annoying. You just don't get anywhere with those kinds of people. When he wanted to discuss it, he would somehow blame me and make it to be that I'm the problem. No sense of ownership, or responsibility = lack of maturity. I fought, cried and tried to discuss my feelings to him and how I felt about his actions. It was frustrating because he was passive aggressive. He told everybody want they wanted to here and did exactly the opposite. OMG..it is annoying. You just don’t get anywhere with those kinds of people. When he wanted to discuss it, he would somehow blame me and make it to be that I’m the problem. No sense of ownership, or responsibility = lack of maturity.

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