Another cheating spouse story. I have watched this terrible and sad story of John and Elizabeth Edwards. I really wish that Elizabeth got out of the relationship sooner. It’s almost as if I feel she wanted so much to work things out. As women, we do this …

Part I of this series dealt with the impact of finding out your partner cheated as it relates to your self esteem. Part II actually deals with you and your relationship. The second biggest impact is trust.
When your husband cheats, from the moment you find out, you question …

Sometimes I hear people say, if only I can be like famous person x or y…..I am like…really?  I feel bad for most of those stars that have no privacy.  Those stars that can leave their house without 10 camera’s flashing at them.  Jon and Kate plus 8 made the …

So this weekend I feel like treating myself.  As women it is usually all about everyone else, but us.  We work, we cook, we clean, we love.  Please take some time out this weekend to do something that makes you happy.  Force yourself to forget about the fact that your …

So most of you by now have heard about David Letterman cheating on his wife Regina.  http://news.cnpanyu.com/2009/1006/6599.html Here is my letter to Regina….
Dear Regina……
Your husband said that you were ‘horribly hurt’ and rightfully so, I remember those days of just finding out about the affair, I wouldn’t wish that on …

So I went to church today to support my niece singing.  While I really came to support my niece, I couldn’t help hear the sermon.  The preacher was talking about how too many people in life live as if it was all about ‘you’.  The whole point was saying whatever …

This sucks.  I expect after an event like this that my husband would be warm and understanding, easy to communicate with, and most of all, humble.  Instead of that, what I get is a huge communication GAP with my husband that had an affair.  Let me explain.  Have you ever …

So my husband cheating in March 2009.   And he claims he wants to work things out.  And I am really, really tired.  It is going to take a ton of effort to rebuild the trust, is it worth it? I don’t know.  Relationships are already hard enough without such a …

I met a women yesterday that told me she found out her man was cheating.  She found out right before her birthday.  It has only been 10 days since it happened, and she has lost weight and trying to get her appetite back.  It is so hard to eat, sleep …

Today was just a really draining day. I have a huge lack of energy.  I have allowed myself to be upset by my husbands words.  I hate when I let him get to me.   It doesn’t make sense and I do it over and over again.  He wants to do …