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Infidelity in the marriage – YOU always have a choice

by Jewels March 27, 2013

Trapped. Alone. Stuck. No where to go. Can not leave. Does this sound like you? After infidelity has entered the marriage, it is common to feel trapped. I remember saying to myself, ‘I can’t love my husband after he cheated, I can’t afford the house on my own, I can’t do this to the kids, [...]

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Affair Recovery – Small Acts of Joy

by Jewels January 8, 2013

One of the member’s of the community (Leslie) wrote a wonderful comment about some of the things that she does when she is looking to bring herself to a better mood. Often during the recovery of infidelity (and even before), we neglect those simple little actions that bring us joy. I remember not taking those [...]

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Is my cheating spouse serious about working things out? – Part II – Action

by Jewels December 19, 2012

When I first found out about the affair, my ex-husband said he wanted to work things out. I believed him. But in time, his actions were not adding up to the words that were coming out of his mouth. All talk – no action. I was driving the affair recovery even though he cheated! Part [...]

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How Affair Sites Are Ruining Marriage

by Maria February 19, 2012

You may have heard this excuse: Humans weren’t meant to be monogamous. “It’s unnatural”. The “theory” behind this excuse is that monogamy was acceptable when we only lived to be 30, but our lifespans have roughly tripled, so we can’t be expected to stay with just one person all those years. And as if it [...]

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Sexting, Texting, and Cheating

by Jewels February 7, 2012

Sexting—that is, sending text messages of a sexual nature—and cheating often go hand-in-hand. In fact, sexting (the term used for these sexually charged text messages) were how I found out about my husband’s affair. My husband had been sexting the other woman for months. Then, one day, he left his phone at home. I was [...]

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Taking Time For You…(Jewels will be offline from Oct5-9th)

by Jewels October 5, 2011

Why do men cheat? Why does this hurt so badly? When does the pain end? I am not sure how to answer all of those questions, but I do know one thing, as women when situations like this arise, we often focus so much on the problem that we forget about ourselves. We forget that [...]

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Welcome To My New Site!!

by Jewels September 8, 2011

I have been working the past two months with a development team to create the site of my liking – and it’s finally here!! It’s a reflection of my own progress and where I want to encourage all women to be that experience their husband cheating.

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Infidelity in Marriage Impacts Self-Esteem

by Jewels April 15, 2011

Many of you, including myself, have made the following statement at some point: “Dealing with the aftermath of my husband’s infidelity is by far the hardest thing I have gone through.” Today, I want to get a little bit into why it’s so difficult. Let’s say someone makes a nasty comment about you in traffic [...]

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