Stress and Cheating

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Marriage infidelity and lack of control

by Jewels September 16, 2012

Marriage Infidelity can shine a light on yourself and your relationship in ways that you can not imagine. The event often forces you to question your beliefs on family, love, and your true self. One of the reasons I was so devastated was because I felt an intense lack of control. With Google and friends, [...]

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Cheating Husband and Stress

by Jewels August 14, 2012

The impact on finding out your partner cheated can really impact your stress level, which can literally turn into health issues. The first year after I found out my ex-husband cheated, I went to the doctor numerous times for chest pain (yes, I know ironic, my heart literally hurt). I had no idea what was [...]

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Cheating While Pregnant and Patience

by Jewels July 25, 2011

Being pregnant can be a difficult time for a married couple. Our bodies go through several changes when we’re pregnant, and every woman’s body reacts differently. For example, some women’s sex drives go through the roof while pregnant, others might have the opposite effect. Pregnancy is hard on a body, and our husbands have to [...]

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If Your Husband Committed Infidelity, Be Prepared to Face the Most Difficult Predicament You Will Ever Face in Your Marriage

by Jewels October 12, 2010

There is no lower point in your marriage than finding out that your husband committed infidelity. It literally turns your entire world upside down; anger, fear, and pain become your best friend. In fact, it really is the most difficult situation to overcome in a marriage. The same question plays over and over again like [...]

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My Cheating Husband and Me are Over, Ironically, I Am Less Stressed

by Jewels May 3, 2010

The moment I decided that my marriage was over last year, I became less stressed. At that time, I was very attentive to my husband’s issues and took them on as my own. When he didn’t pay a bill, I was stressed. When he was running late for work, I was stressed. When he wanted [...]

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Dealing With A Cheating Spouse

by Jewels January 27, 2010

Dealing with a cheating spouse can have tremendous detrimental effects on your health. Some days I feel very weak because I am carrying such a load of resentment and anger, and that stress harms my body. Since I found out my husband had cheated, I have been to the doctor at more than fifteen times [...]

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Cheating Spouse Just Something Else I Am Pissed About

by Jewels December 29, 2009

I always tell my husband that it wasn’t the sex that has me so upset, it is everything else that comes with infidelity. For example, my spouse was supposed to be the protector, the one who makes sure the door is locked and that nobody messes with his wife. And in an ironic twist of [...]

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After the Affair – The Questioning!

by Jewels October 12, 2009

I am fortunate enough to have TiVo (which allows you to record shows), and I just got around to watching the premier of Trauma, which comes on Monday nights. This particular episode had a character that had an affair. One scene involved his wife asking him why he was coming home late. He told her [...]

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Recovering From Infidelity Has Me Drained

by Jewels September 11, 2009

Recovery from infidelity is exhausting. Today was just a really draining day dealing with my cheating husband. Basically, I have a huge lack of energy after I allowed myself to be upset by his words. I hate when I let him get to me. It doesn’t make sense and I do it over and over [...]

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After the Affair – Now what??

by Jewels September 5, 2009

My husband cheated, so now what?  I find myself spending WAY too much time thinking should I stay/should I leave/should I stay for the kids/should I not.  This is what a cheating man does to a woman, makes her question herself more than ever.  Thanks.

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