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Did You Stay After Your Husband Had An Affair?

by Jewels March 28, 2011

Today, I want to write about the topic that is very close to many women who read this blog, and that is the topic of choosing to stay with your cheating husband after you found out about the affair. Now there is no such thing as staying in the marriage or leaving, there are several [...]

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After the Affair – Time to Move Out of the House

by Jewels October 31, 2010

In the next two weeks, I am moving out of my house into an apartment. My mom and sister are flying in town tomorrow to help me move this week. It’s really bitter sweet, especially because I have kids. I know they are going to be so confused in the coming months, not understanding why [...]

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If Your Husband Committed Infidelity, Be Prepared to Face the Most Difficult Predicament You Will Ever Face in Your Marriage

by Jewels October 12, 2010

There is no other lower point in your marriage than finding out your husband committed infidelity. It is the most difficult situation to overcome in a marriage. It literally lifts your entire world into crisis, anger, and fear mode. If your husband cheated, it leaves you with the most difficult predicament you will ever face [...]

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Yesterday I Cried For Hours

by Jewels September 12, 2010

Hello Everyone, As you all know, overcoming an affair can be tough. I have made tremendous progress over the last year, but I still have my days. Yesterday was tough for me. I am moving out of the house within the next two months and I had some really deep pain over leaving this house [...]

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Surviving an Affair – 3 Quick Tips

by Jewels August 20, 2010

Surviving an affair is literally about preventing yourself from feeling low and depressed. When your husband has an affair, it puts you in such a difficult spot. Often times, as women we are so shocked and upset, we have no idea what to do next. Here are some things that helped me in my journey [...]

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My Cheating Husband and Me are Over, Ironically, I Am Less Stressed

by Jewels May 3, 2010

For me personally, the moment I decided last year that the marriage was over, I became less stressed. I had a husband who depended on me for everything. When he didn’t pay a bill, I was stressed. When he was running late for work, I was stressed. When he wanted something that he didn’t get, [...]

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Cheating Spouse – Do You Really Want to End This?

by Jewels March 6, 2010

I get this question almost every day from my cheating husband (Do you really want to end this?). I don’t want to be affectionate, because then I am leading him on and in his opinion ‘playing games’. I struggled for a while with this issue. It takes an effort to be mean when you live [...]

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Is My Cheating Spouse Worth the Help??

by Jewels December 15, 2009

I am a little frustrated today with the affair. I know I have to eventually make a decision about my cheating spouse and I am in denial, trying not to think about it, but it keeps popping up. As you know, my husband and I still live in the same house. I really want to [...]

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Conversation With A Former Cheating Spouse

by Jewels November 25, 2009

I was having lunch with a co-worker who is very happy now in his second marriage. I asked him what happened in his first marriage (in which he was married for 12 years). He said during the first year, he cheated on his wife, and he feels that she never was able to recover from [...]

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