Sex after the Affair


Do Cheating Husbands Use Condoms?

by Jewels June 17, 2011

After your husband has an affair, trying to work on your marriage with him can be difficult, especially when it comes to sex. You can see how difficult this was for me by reading Sex after the affair, which explains what I went through when I was trying to salvage my marriage. Today, I want […]

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The Stress of Sex and Your Cheating Spouse

by Jewels December 8, 2009

My marriage is on life support. There is no sex, and we only communicate for the sake of our kids. I have told him that our marriage is over because of his affair and because I can’t get over his behavior, and that it’s okay for me to feel that way. Of course he wants […]

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My Husband Cheated – 5 Reasons Why I Now Hate Having Sex With Him

by Jewels October 25, 2009

Sex is a major part of a marriage, and infidelity in marriage makes sex about ten times more complicated (See Stress, sex, and affair recovery for more of my thoughts on this.). Right now, the sex in our relationship is so complicated that I don’t want to have it for five reasons. 1. Sexual performance. […]

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Cheating and Sex and Communication Breakdown

by Jewels October 1, 2009

This sucks. I expected after an event like this that my husband would be warm and understanding, easy to communicate with, and most of all, humble. Instead, what I get is a huge communication gap. Let me explain. Have you ever begun a conversation with the plan to open your heart and share your feelings […]

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Why Do Men Cheat? My Husband’s Reason.

by Jewels September 7, 2009

Why do men cheat? It’s the question of all questions. My husband claims we didn’t have sex enough. This is true; we did not have nearly as much sex as we did before I got pregnant. But I didn’t do this on purpose or to make him angry. When you are pregnant, your hormones change, […]

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