Sad after the affair

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When Does The Pain of the Affair End?

by Jewels March 8, 2011

Many women contact me months and sometimes years after the affair, looking for an answer as to why they still feel like they are in so much pain.  Why does the pain linger on so long after the affair, and how can you start to heal? Of course, healing after the affair is a loaded [...]

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After the Affair – The Different Types of Crying

by Jewels November 22, 2010

I have come to realize that there are 2 different types of crying associated with finding out your husband having an affair. Both are very important towards your recovery and it is actually important to understand these two types. Type I – Hurt/Anger Cry – This is the crying that comes with the pain of [...]

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Cougar Town and Why Do We Help Our Cheating Husbands?

by Jewels October 22, 2010

I just recently watched my first episode of Cougar Town, which is a sitcom about a divorced woman entering in the dating scene again. Jules (almost like my name!!) divorced her cheating husband. Throughout the episode, even though they are divorced, she feels the need to help him. Towards the end of the show, she [...]

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Yesterday I Cried For Hours

by Jewels September 12, 2010

Hello Everyone, As you all know, overcoming an affair can be tough. I have made tremendous progress over the last year, but I still have my days. Yesterday was tough for me. I am moving out of the house within the next two months and I had some really deep pain over leaving this house [...]

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After the Affair – I Am Sad Today

by Jewels November 4, 2009

Going through the pain of infidelity is very difficult, it’s sometimes hard to describe. You have your good days, bad days, and days that you just want to crawl in a hole. You sometimes feel like there is no hope. Today, I have been consumed with thoughts of sadness after the affair because a part [...]

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My Husband Had An Affair – This Can’t Be Happening to Me

by Jewels September 4, 2009

Isn’t funny how life is?  You think things like an affair and infidelity can’t happen to you – then boom, you find out your husband cheated.  I really, really thought my husband would never do it, seriously.  I guess there is a lesson for all of us in this….    

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