Personal Encouragement

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Recovery From Cheating

by Jewels June 21, 2010

Ladies, I know the people that read my post are at different stages in their recovery. Some are fresh with pains so deep they wonder how they are going to get out of bed tomorrow. Some have lived in misery for a while and wonder when things will start to look positive again. And some [...]

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Cheating Husband and Mom – THANK YOU (to the moms)!!

by Jewels May 9, 2010

Today is Mother’s Day; I would like to say Happy Mother’s Day to all, but especially to those moms that also have husbands who cheated/cheat. There are so many situations that put additional dynamics to cheating, and having kids is one of them (And since it is mother’s day, I will talk this one). There [...]

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Impact of Finding Out Your Partner Cheated – Part III

by Jewels April 16, 2010

Part I explored the impact of cheating on your self esteem. Part II talks about the impact of trust within the marriage. Today, I will go over the 3rd and final impact of finding out your husband cheated. This impact could actually be positive or negative. The 3rd impact is – You will never see [...]

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Cheating Spouse Experience: A Blessing in the Storm

by Jewels February 27, 2010

Today was a great day for me. For years, I denied myself. I denied myself of getting new clothes. I denied myself of going out with friends. I denied myself of watching TV, having fun, doing what I like doing, not what everyone else likes doing. And today, I feel I am getting to the [...]

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Be Thankful – Yes, Even For Your Cheating Husband

by Jewels December 24, 2009

It’s the holiday season, so ladies it’s time to be thankful. My cousin has two teenagers at home, and since she lost her job, she cannot give them anything for their birthday or Christmas (both are in December). I know of a woman who lost her husband recently and will be having Christmas without him [...]

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Cheating Husband, Anger |It’s Time for Affirmations

by Jewels December 19, 2009

Today, I made a declaration that because I am at a point in my life (you know cheating husband and all) where I need a change, I am going to invest some time into creating an affirmation for myself. I am big into writing down goals in life, and for me personally, they have worked [...]

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You Will Recover From the Affair

by Jewels November 19, 2009

I know there are some women out there today that are feeling really helpless about their situation with their cheating spouse. It is a very difficult time where you are going to need support to move on (which is ironic because most women go through this alone). I am here to tell you if no [...]

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After the Affair – No More Putting My Dreams on Hold

by Jewels November 12, 2009

It is actually interesting, when my husband cheated, I was SO angry at myself because I put my dreams and aspirations on hold for him (at least that is what I was thinking in my mind). It’s an emotion that surfaced that I must have been holding inside. How many times do we do this [...]

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An Affair With Myself – Yum!!

by Jewels October 9, 2009

So this weekend I feel like treating myself. As women, it is usually all about everyone else…..but US. We work, we cook, we clean, we love. Please take some time out this weekend to do something that makes you happy. Force yourself to forget about the fact that your husband has cheated, throw it away, [...]

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Affair Recovery Stranger

by Jewels September 19, 2009

From an infidelity standpoint, it’s so interesting how I find it easier to talk to strangers about the affair versus people close to me. I guess it’s because the embarrassment/judgment about your husband cheating factor is not there. I met a woman yesterday that told me she found out her husband was having an affair. [...]

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