Communication After the Affair

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Recovering From An Affair and You Hear “Just Get Over it”

by Jewels September 22, 2011

Dealing with a cheating spouse is not a walk in the park. To deal with one of the most difficult situations you will face, and then to have your cheating husband say “just get over it” is hurtful. I bet a million dollars if we were the ones that cheated and we would say, oh [...]

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My Cheating Husband – Observation on Communication

by Jewels October 18, 2009

Infidelity recovery for me this weekend includes cleaning, watching the kids, more cleaning, and talking with my husband. Saturday night, I was thinking really hard about the marriage, the affair, and my happiness radar. Something popped out as a major issue, and surprisingly, it wasn’t the act of my husband cheating. My issue was that [...]

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After the Affair – The Questioning!

by Jewels October 12, 2009

So I am fortunate enough to have TiVo (where you can record shows) and I just got around to watching the new premier of the show TRAMA, which comes on Monday nights. Of course, they have a character that had an affair. The scene was basically the wife asking him why he is coming home [...]

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Cheating and Sex and Communication Breakdown

by Jewels October 1, 2009

This sucks.  I expect after an event like this that my husband would be warm and understanding, easy to communicate with, and most of all, humble.  Instead of that, what I get is a huge communication GAP with my cheating husband that had an affair.  Let me explain. Have you ever had a conversation with [...]

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Husband After the Affair – I Want to Work Things Out

by Jewels September 22, 2009

I caught my husband cheating in March 2009. And he claims he wants to work things out. And I am really, really tired. It is going to take a ton of effort to rebuild the trust, is it worth it? I don’t know. Relationships are already hard enough without such a complicated dynamic such as [...]

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