Cheating Husbands - YOU ARE NOT ALONE » Blessing http://www.acheatinghusband.com Post Affair Recovery Site for wives who have been through the painful situation of a cheating husband Fri, 27 Aug 2010 01:56:35 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Cheating spouse experience: A blessing in the storm http://www.acheatinghusband.com/cheating-spouse-experience-a-blessing-in-the-storm/ http://www.acheatinghusband.com/cheating-spouse-experience-a-blessing-in-the-storm/#comments Sun, 28 Feb 2010 03:29:21 +0000 Jewels http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=223 Today was a great day for me. For years, I denied myself. I denied myself of getting new clothes. I denied myself of going out with friends. I denied myself of watching tv, having fun, doing what I like doing, not what everyone else likes doing. And today, I feel I am getting to the point where I am becoming liberated. Liberated from everyone’s else’s viewpoint of what I should do and how I should do it. After my husband cheated, I learned something so important, and that is, the only person that is going to look out for you is you. Your husband is looking out for him, and everyone else in this world is doing the same thing, expect you!! I decided that this can not happen anymore. It is about me in 2010, and what I want to do, what I need to do, and what I can do to make me happy. I always thought I was selfish in thinking this way, now I realize that being selfish is good. It gives you love and reserves so that you can love others more fully. So when people ask me to do something I don’t want to do, I tell them no (especially my cheating husband…lol). Not to be mean, because I have to get to the point where I make decisions based off of me first, not everyone else. Of course, I have a long ways to go, I take each day at a time. Today I went shopping, just for me. That rarely happens, and I always feel guilty because I have bills, kids, ect to look after. But ironically, after being selfish and shopping for me, I came home a better mother, a happier mother, because I took care of myself first. I am just breaking the tip of the iceberg in this new found me, but so far I LOVE it!! My hope is that anyone that is reading this will find themselves at this point as well. Best of luck.

Jewels!!

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