Anger and Infidelity

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When Does The Pain of the Affair End?

by Jewels March 8, 2011

Many women contact me months and sometimes years after the affair, looking for an answer as to why they still feel like they are in so much pain.  Why does the pain linger on so long after the affair, and how can you start to heal? Of course, healing after the affair is a loaded [...]

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Why Affair Recovery is Difficult – #1 TRIGGER

by Jewels January 12, 2011

I just realized why affair recovery is so darn difficult!! As you know, after the affair, there are things that you will see, hear, or remember that will remind you of your husband cheating and put you back in that angry or sad place. Click here to read more about this After the affair – [...]

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Your Husband Cheated? Revenge Is Not Your Job.

by Jewels June 2, 2010

Hope everyone has been doing well. I wanted to touch on the topic of revenge. When we face a cheating husband, you feel very justified to hurt him and get him back for what he did. It’s human nature to have that little voice in your ear saying ‘You will pay for this!’. But I [...]

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Cheating Spouse Just Something Else I Am Pissed About

by Jewels December 29, 2009

I always tell my husband, it wasn’t the act of cheating that I am so mad about, it is the other stuff. My husband was supposed to be the protector. He is the one that makes sure the door is locked and that nobody messes with his wife. He is also the type that is [...]

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Is My Cheating Spouse Worth the Help??

by Jewels December 15, 2009

I am a little frustrated today with the affair. I know I have to eventually make a decision about my cheating spouse and I am in denial, trying not to think about it, but it keeps popping up. As you know, my husband and I still live in the same house. I really want to [...]

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After the Affair Paranoia

by Jewels September 14, 2009

Now that my spouse has cheated, I am getting a little paranoid. I found out he cheated, and he kept going with her for months, all while I was thinking we were ‘working on the marriage’. I feel so used, and at times I feel like a fool. The lack of trust after the affair [...]

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Recovering From Infidelity Has Me Drained

by Jewels September 11, 2009

Recovery from infidelity is exhausting. Today was just a really draining day dealing with my cheating husband. I have a huge lack of energy. I have allowed myself to be upset by my husband’s words. I hate when I let him get to me. It doesn’t make sense and I do it over and over [...]

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