Dealing with your husband cheating is like going on a roller coaster with your emotions. Things do get better with time. With that said, there is something called emotional triggers that will take place. An emotional trigger is something that brings back memories of the affair and …

I think the moment when you actually take the ring off in a marriage is really a strong statement. I actually took my ring off in anger (weeks ago), but decided not to put it back on as a sign of strength. I think many times as women …

I finally told my dad today about my husband cheating on me.  I told my mom and sis already, but I think I really feared the disappointment from my dad.  My dad is big into family and really wants me to think twice about all major decisions because of my …

I always tell my husband, it wasn’t the act of cheating that I am so mad about, it is the other stuff.  I just realized what one of the ‘other things’ is.  My husband is the protector.  He is the one that makes sure the door is locked and that …

I am a little frustrated today with the affair.  I know I have to eventually make a decision about my cheating spouse and I am in denial, trying not to think about it, but it keeps popping up.  As you know, me and husband still live in the same house.  …

Hello everyone,
Right now me and my cheating spouse (former husband) are living together, for the sake of living together.  There is no sex, and communication is only because of our kids.  I have expressed to him that it is over because of his affair and the fact that I can …

You know, I love deep conversations, and I had one this weekend that was very valuable concerning Mr. Cheating Spouse.  So I was talking to my girlfriend about relationships, and she is clearly much wiser than me.  And I just met her, so she had no clue that my husband …

Sex is a major part of a marriage. When there is infidelity in the marriage, it messes up the sex thing and really makes sex 10 times more complicated.  I am at the point in my marriage right now that because my husband had an affair, I hate sex right …

As I think about my life right now, I can’t complain because I am able to feed my two kids, and I have a house.  But seriously, I never though in a million years that in 2009, I would be robbing peter to pay paul to pay my mortgage, have …

I met a women yesterday that told me she found out her man was cheating.  She found out right before her birthday.  It has only been 10 days since it happened, and she has lost weight and trying to get her appetite back.  It is so hard to eat, sleep …