Comments on: Affair With Friend – The Great Debate http://www.acheatinghusband.com/affair-with-friend-the-great-debate/ After the Affair Site for wives who have been through the painful situation of a cheating husband Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:16:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jewels http://www.acheatinghusband.com/affair-with-friend-the-great-debate/comment-page-1/#comment-45028 Jewels Fri, 03 Feb 2012 03:55:59 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=266#comment-45028 Vicki, It's not ok for him to still talk to her and pursue you. What he is saying is that he wants you but doesn't want to let her know, it doesn't work that way. Maybe it's good that you continue to move on, it seems like staying involved is going to get the drama to continue. Vicki,

It’s not ok for him to still talk to her and pursue you. What he is saying is that he wants you but doesn’t want to let her know, it doesn’t work that way. Maybe it’s good that you continue to move on, it seems like staying involved is going to get the drama to continue.

]]> By: LisaP http://www.acheatinghusband.com/affair-with-friend-the-great-debate/comment-page-1/#comment-44991 LisaP Tue, 31 Jan 2012 23:56:21 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=266#comment-44991 Vicki, your divorced right? If so you have already walked away! You took the step to move on and now it's your turn to put your foot down and move on girl! He is just stringing you along because you let him. Yes a part of you will always love him that is normal, but he made a bad choice to cheat and then still stay in contact with her. No one should have to put up with that! Vicki, your divorced right? If so you have already walked away! You took the step to move on and now it’s your turn to put your foot down and move on girl! He is just stringing you along because you let him. Yes a part of you will always love him that is normal, but he made a bad choice to cheat and then still stay in contact with her. No one should have to put up with that!

]]> By: Vicki http://www.acheatinghusband.com/affair-with-friend-the-great-debate/comment-page-1/#comment-44981 Vicki Tue, 31 Jan 2012 12:19:45 +0000 http://www.acheatinghusband.com/?p=266#comment-44981 I worked the 11pm -7am shift my husband says he wasn't looking he was comparing. What the heck does that mean? I found e=mails to him from wome n on zooks and he hooked up with an old friend from high school ivia Facebook, Needless to say I moved out and we are now divorced. He insists he wants his wife back but continues to talk and text this woman. she called him last week and wanted to take him out for his birthday, he says he did not go that weekend because he thought we were working on getting back together. I flipped out and no matter how much I still love him I can not get the picture of him and her having sex out of my head. I can't stand for him to touch me now. He thinks it's okay for them to still be friends and says the have not had sex in over a year. Does that make it okay for him to still talk to her? I can't seem to make a decision to walk away or stay. I worked the 11pm -7am shift my husband says he wasn’t looking he was comparing. What the heck does that mean? I found e=mails to him from wome n on zooks and he hooked up with an old friend from high school ivia Facebook, Needless to say I moved out and we are now divorced. He insists he wants his wife back but continues to talk and text this woman. she called him last week and wanted to take him out for his birthday, he says he did not go that weekend because he thought we were working on getting back together. I flipped out and no matter how much I still love him I can not get the picture of him and her having sex out of my head. I can’t stand for him to touch me now. He thinks it’s okay for them to still be friends and says the have not had sex in over a year. Does that make it okay for him to still talk to her? I can’t seem to make a decision to walk away or stay.

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