Comments on: About ME

By: MS

MS — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 21:15:43 +0000

Thank you for this blog and sharing your experiences with the rest of us……….this is my 2nd husband and we’ve been together almost 9 years. It never entered my mind that he would do this…..

By: Jewels

Jewels — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 20:51:16 +0000

MS, this is my response to your previous post

Yes you are in a tough place right now, as each day goes by, you will gain knowledge courage, and strength. That’s interesting that you talk about self-esteem and confidence, my confidence it pretty high right now, and I was right where you were as far as how your feeling so trust me, you can recovery. I am in the process of writing another ebook about to to regain your personal confidence after the affair. So your comment is motivating me to continue to write in hopes of helping others. Take care.

By: Jewels

Jewels — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 20:43:35 +0000

MS, Thanks for taking the time to comment about the ebook.

By: MS

MS — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:48:29 +0000

I just got through with reading your ebook! Thank you! Even though it’s only been 3 weeks since I found out, I have gone through much of what you described in your ebook.

By: MS

MS — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:58:57 +0000

I am 3 weeks into finding out my husband had been cheating on me for the past year. The emotional rollercoaster is exactly what I am on right now! The triggers are terrible. I am pretty sure the other woman is out of the picture now (he found out she was “cheating” on him during their relationship) but the distrust I feel for him is overwhelming. All the lies and deceit over the past year makes me want to turn into a person that I am not! We are working on saving and fixing our marriage, but my self-esteem and confidence are non-exisistent right now…….I hope with reading and sharing with others that have gone through it will help me get to a better place soon. Thanks.

By: Jewels

Jewels — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 01:37:44 +0000

Thanks so much K for your comment!! It is such an emotional roller coaster, I am just now starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I hope everything works out with your surgery and the move. Take care…..

By: k

Mon, 07 Jun 2010 07:35:51 +0000

SO HAPPY TO FIND YOUR BLOG. I AM GOING THRU THIS NOW (SINCE FEB) HOWEVER I AM NOT SURE IF WE ARE REALLY WORKING THINGS OUT RIGHT NOW. I THINK I AM GONNA HAVE HIM MOVE OUT IN OCT OR NOV ( AM HAVING MAJOR SURGERY IN SEPT) I WILL BE OUT OF WORK FOR A MONTH WITH NO PAY. BY SEPERATING THIS WAY IT IS A BIT EASIER ON THE KIDS AND FINANCIALY WE ARE ABLE TO PLAN THE SEPERATION AND BILLS ETC…
UGH!! IM SO VERY FRUSTRATED TONIGHT! SOME DAYS I WANT TO WORK IT OUT AND OTHERS I CAN NOT WAIT FOR HIM TO LEAVE! IM SO VERY UNDECIDED ON WHAT IS THE RIGHT PATH! AS I AM SURE ANY WOMAN IS AFTER FINDING OUT SUCH AWFUL NEWS!

ANYWAYS I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR WRITING YOUR BLOG! I WILL BE FOLLOWING. ALSO GOOD UCK IN YOUR JOURNEY TO SAVING YUR MARRIAGE!

By: Jewels

Jewels — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:34:18 +0000

Thanks Maxi for the compliment and for sharing your story, your words of going through this experience twice is heartbreaking to read. Your neighbor’s husband was cheating while she was in the hospital, my husband might of been doing the same thing, I don’t put anything past him now. But I see that your already making a positive difference in creating a Facebook page for others to share and support each other. I wish you the best and a speedy recovery!!

By: Maxi Fields

Maxi Fields — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:23:03 +0000

You are brave and courageous in doing this, everything you’ve written is on the money for those of us who have been through it and are going through it now. The thing is, I’ve gone through it twice – can you believe it? With my first husband, it blew me away because I never thought he would do such a thing. However, I was young and dumb, married too early in life. Second time, second husband – my, “soulmate” – it was the last thing on my mind that he might be guilty of doing and this time, hurt so much more, it cut me to the core of my soul.

My neighbor when married to my first husband, she was another one that thought he would never do such a thing. I wonder did she ever find out that he had? You see, like you, she was pregnant when her husband cheated, she was in the hospital following the birth of their son, the two night while she was in – he was cheating. My husband ordered me to stay out of it, don’t say at thing – I didn’t. Oh well – come join me, and others like me at facebook – there’s a group there – Wives Of Cheating FB Husbands – get it off your chest, it really helps.