Cheating Husbands – YOU ARE NOT ALONE

Hello Ladies,

If you found your husband talking to women online, realize that this type of discovery is happening all over the world. In my opinion, it is literally an epidemic. Online Cheating is something that is fairly new, and since it is new, women all over the world are trying to figure out what this is, if it is really cheating, and how to deal with it. In this article I am just going to level set on why it is so popular.

Online Cheating Popularity Fact #1 – It is popular because it is so easy. There is some statistic that says that men think about sex every 5 minutes. This doesn’t change when they get online. The problem is, when they go online, sex is all over the internet. It can be in the form of porn sites, dating sites, pictures that friends send (men send sexy, naughty pics to each other all the time). In the past, to get this type of access to sex you would literally have to order it from a magazine. Now, it is as simple as typing in a search. Doesn’t really help our cause in trying to keep the bond of a marriage when your man is constantly bombarded with sex on the internet. You know how they have filters for kids on the internet so they won’t see adult things, we need to have the same filter for men on the internet as it pertains to sex, if you know of any products of that sort – email me!!

Online Cheating Popularity Fact #2 - Online sex is addictive. What tends to happen (just like cheating), is that your husband things he is just going on a site, or chatting with a random chick just to try it out, or have a little fun for a night. The problem is, the next night, they say the same thing. Then both of you get in a fight, then it’s back to the chat room or porn site. Before HE knows it, he is addicted to the online sex world. It is almost like video game addicts, they get hooked in to this fantasy world and can’t stop playing. Men think they can control themselves when it comes to online sexual sites, chat rooms, ect. They get caught up, and usually the chats turn into calls, turn into visits, and then you end up with a cheating husband.

Online Cheating Popularity Fact #3 – Men don’t think flirting with women online is actually cheating. Here is the problem. It’s like when you go out to lunch with a ‘friend’ that is the opposite sex. You think – I am not cheating, we are just having lunch. But there is a moment where you start having more lunches and you start to catch feelings. Both of you know it, but continue to see each other. Same EXACT thing happens online. You man goes to a site, thinks nothing of it. Starts chatting with women and says to himself ‘I’m not cheating, it’s not like I am having sex or something, just flirting.’. But our husband’s get to a point where it turns into something more, and instead of stopping, they continue until they are full out having sex with someone else. They think they are not cheating at first, but they actually are cheating with each level they they advance in the online communication with someone else.

To sum it up, I wanted to give some context into why online cheating is so popular. There are so many facets to online cheating which I didn’t go into, but just realize if your a victim of it, you not alone at all, this is happening and devastating families all over the world because as a society we don’t really know how to deal with it. That’s all for now. Take care everyone.

Jewels