It is actually interesting, when my husband cheated, I was SO angry at myself because I put my dreams and aspirations on hold for him (at least that is what I was thinking in my mind). It’s an emotion that surfaced that I must have been holding inside. How many times do we do this ladies? “Oh I will have the kids, get my life in order, work out my relationship, and then after all of that, make time for me.” Well, infidelity can certainly shock someone into realization that the ‘everything will be together’ stage might not ever come. So it’s time to look at yourself and start taking some action towards your dreams. Here are some things you can do.
1.) Tell your cheating husband that you need a day to yourself and go to the bookstore or library. Your objective is to find something that you are passionate about, and start reading about it. Anything from magazines to how to books. This will really get your energy going because things that you are passionate about put you in a good place mentally, and less in a place where you are thinking about the affair.
2.) Talk to your girlfriends about your passion or hobby. There is nothing like a good girlfriend that can brainstorm your passion area and provide ideas on how you can expand on your passion. It is fun, and stimulates your mind, so again, tell Mr. Cheater that you want to meet up with your girlfriend and have fun.
3.) Write out a list of things in how you can bring your passion more to your everyday life. For some people it is just a matter of writing it down that opens there mind to the possibilities.
I know it’s hard because the fact that you’re cheating husband consumes your mind like crazy.
But if you follow through on at least one of my suggestions, I promise you it will put a temporary smile on your face during this rough time knowing your husband cheated. Stay strong, till next time.
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