At one point in my relationship, I asked my husband if he wanted to have an ‘open’ relationship.  I saw on some talk show where married couples engaged in different type of open relationships.  Some were ‘swingers’ where they meet other married couple and engage in protected sex.  While I …

Sex is a major part of a marriage. When there is infidelity in the marriage, it messes up the sex thing and really makes sex 10 times more complicated.  I am at the point in my marriage right now that because my husband had an affair, I hate sex right …

As I think about my life right now, I can’t complain because I am able to feed my two kids, and I have a house.  But seriously, I never though in a million years that in 2009, I would be robbing peter to pay paul to pay my mortgage, have …

Hello Ladies,
Hope you had a great weekend.  My weekend was filled with cleaning, watching the kids, more cleaning, and talking with my husband.  Saturday night, I was thinking really hard about the marriage, infidelity, and my happiness radar.  One thing popped out as a major issue, and surprisingly, it wasn’t …

Sometimes I hear people say, if only I can be like famous person x or y…..I am like…really?  I feel bad for most of those stars that have no privacy.  Those stars that can leave their house without 10 camera’s flashing at them.  Jon and Kate plus 8 made the …

So I am fortunate enough to have tivo and I just got around to watching the new premier of the show TRAMA, which comes on Monday night.  Of course, they have a character that had an affair (the black guy on the show, can’t remember his name).  The scene was …

So this weekend I feel like treating myself.  As women it is usually all about everyone else, but us.  We work, we cook, we clean, we love.  Please take some time out this weekend to do something that makes you happy.  Force yourself to forget about the fact that your …

So most of you by now have heard about David Letterman cheating on his wife Regina.  http://news.cnpanyu.com/2009/1006/6599.html Here is my letter to Regina….
Dear Regina……
Your husband said that you were ‘horribly hurt’ and rightfully so, I remember those days of just finding out about the affair, I wouldn’t wish that on …

So I went to church today to support my niece singing.  While I really came to support my niece, I couldn’t help hear the sermon.  The preacher was talking about how too many people in life live as if it was all about ‘you’.  The whole point was saying whatever …

This sucks.  I expect after an event like this that my husband would be warm and understanding, easy to communicate with, and most of all, humble.  Instead of that, what I get is a huge communication GAP with my husband that had an affair.  Let me explain.  Have you ever …