Hi Ladies, I hope everyone is doing better than the day before. I am still plugging away writing the book and trying to manage life in between. It will be available within the next couple of months. If you are on my email list you will surely receive notification. I want to share with you Read More

Hi Everyone, Today I want to share a bit of a personal message from me as well as my thoughts on the next steps for the site. I started this website in September of 2009. Seven months prior to this, I found out my husband cheated on me and it was one of the lowest Read More

Today I am going to share with you an update on the relationship between me and my ex-husband. Thanks to the site and my interactions with others, I started to realize his actions and cheating was similar to how others have been cheated on. I started to reflect deeply our marriage and as I started Read More

Hi Ladies, I know it's been a while, I have been working hard to update the site and think about what I want to do next. I ran across this song and wanted to share. It's one of those songs that you wish your husband would sing to you after you found out. I have Read More

Hi Everyone, I know it has been a while. The past couple of weeks I have been working to upgrade the website. While you will not see many changes in the actual view of the site at this moment, the back end was completely upgraded.  I am still int he process of testing functionality and Read More

We all think our husbands are not the ‘cheating type’. The reality is, every husband (and wife) can at some point in the marriage be tempted to engage in an affair. Our society is different than it was before; opportunities to engage with the opposite sex are at an all-time high. And it is a Read More

There is a very interesting trend I would like to share with you in the cheating world. One of the members of the site Susan pointed this trend out to me and she was spot on. The trend is that more and more women are coming to me saying that their husband is cheating on Read More

Hi Ladies, I like this song, it's about a man that discover's his woman cheating, but everything still applies. It's also got an empowering tone to it, which I like. (Click Read More to listen to song) Read More

Ladies, today I would like to shed some insight into the topic of the other woman (OW). As wives, we are often shocked that another woman would have an affair with our husband without a care in the world. What type of woman would do that? The hard core truth is that it is very Read More

If you take a look at my responses when people write to me, many contain advice to seek therapy. I truly believe, based on your life situation, that some of what a wife goes through once she finds out that her husband cheated is similar to post-traumatic stress. I am not a doctor; it is Read More

Toni Braxton and Babyface created an amazing album title "Love, Marriage and Divorce". This creation is a wonderful collection of songs about relationships. Five stars from me, anyone who is married and experience infidelity can relate to many of these songs. Below is just one of the songs, titled "Take It Back". Enjoy Read More

Many women write to me after they discover their husband has committed adultery. It’s overwhelming at the time because you are trying to understand why your husband had an affair, and what you should do next. Eventually, I had a game plan in my mind of what would help us get back on track. It Read More

I like this song by Katy Perry. Every time I hear it, I get excited! Happy Friday Ladies Read More

Hi Ladies, Wanted to wish everyone a 2014 filled with clarity, peace, and understanding. Everything happens for a reason, and when we are in the mist of the storm, it is so hard to find the lesson in it all. But there is a lesson. Remember no matter what you are going through, someone else Read More