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Six thoughts to consider if you catch your spouse on Ashley Madison

Hi, Many of you might have heard the news about Ashley Madison. Ashely Madison is a website for married men and women to meet up with other married men and women who want to have affairs. The owners of the site make over 100 million a year with over 38 million users. There is a Read More

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Affair Recovery Song – Ne-Yo Why

Hi Ladies, I heard this one today, it’s short and sweet, and captures infidelity in a way that is pretty deep. Enjoy Read More

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Cheating Recovery Song – Chris Young – The man I want to be

Hi Ladies, one of the members sent me this song to share with everyone, about a man wanting to do better.     Read More

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My first Amazon book is available

My first book is now available on a website called Amazon.com. This is not a physical book (yet), it’s an ebook that you can read on any electronic device. The title is called The Cheating Husband Epidemic – Why Infidelity Has Become Mainstream and 8 Tools Used in Powerful Long Lasting Marriages. The full description Read More

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What To Do If You Suspect Your Partner is Cheating Online

The rise of technology and social media has brought about a vast new platform from which men can cheat. A recent article examined just why online affairs are so popular and with statistics indicating that a whopping 57% of people use the internet to flirt, it doesn’t seem like this is something that is going Read More

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After the Divorce – Validation

Hi Ladies, today I would like to showcase an article by Mel Daniels, enjoy :) Going through a divorce is fairly traumatic at the best of times. If your husband has been unfaithful to you, that process can be devastating. One of the emotions which commonly afflict women who have been cheated on is a Read More

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The Pain of an Affair – Does your husband know?

Hi Ladies, I hope everyone is doing better than the day before. I am still plugging away writing the book and trying to manage life in between. It will be available within the next couple of months. If you are on my email list you will surely receive notification. I want to share with you Read More

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My Personal Journey of Growth

Hi Everyone, Today I want to share a bit of a personal message from me as well as my thoughts on the next steps for the site. I started this website in September of 2009. Seven months prior to this, I found out my husband cheated on me and it was one of the lowest Read More

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Self-reflection and forgiveness

Today I am going to share with you an update on the relationship between me and my ex-husband. Thanks to the site and my interactions with others, I started to realize his actions and cheating was similar to how others have been cheated on. I started to reflect deeply our marriage and as I started Read More

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Cheating Recovery Song – Anthony Hamilton

Hi Ladies, I know it’s been a while, I have been working hard to update the site and think about what I want to do next. I ran across this song and wanted to share. It’s one of those songs that you wish your husband would sing to you after you found out. I have Read More

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Website Upgrade

Hi Everyone, I know it has been a while. The past couple of weeks I have been working to upgrade the website. While you will not see many changes in the actual view of the site at this moment, the back end was completely upgraded.  I am still int he process of testing functionality and Read More

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The Temptation to Cheat on your Spouse

We all think our husbands are not the ‘cheating type’. The reality is, every husband (and wife) can at some point in the marriage be tempted to engage in an affair. Our society is different than it was before; opportunities to engage with the opposite sex are at an all-time high. And it is a Read More

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The new “Other Woman”

There is a very interesting trend I would like to share with you in the cheating world. One of the members of the site Susan pointed this trend out to me and she was spot on. The trend is that more and more women are coming to me saying that their husband is cheating on Read More

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Cheating Recovery Song – You’ll Think of Me – Keith Urban

Hi Ladies, I like this song, it’s about a man that discover’s his woman cheating, but everything still applies. It’s also got an empowering tone to it, which I like. (Click Read More to listen to song) Read More